How to make your profile stand out!

Online dating, it's a minefield! Scary enough to be putting yourself out there for the world to make a quick judgement, but how do I maximise my profile views? How do I make the best possible impression of myself? Don't worry, we have you covered!

The Basics

Start with a photo. Of course, this is what everyone is most nervous about. Are people going to like what they see? The simple fact is, you are likely to get more hits on your profile with a photo than without. No matter what we think about finding the beauty within, people want to see who they're speaking to. This is a dating site after all, and realistically, physical attraction is the first thing people are concerned about. Women in particular will also feel more comfortable when they can see the person behind the screen. The process can be uncomfortable enough for some, make it easier for everyone!

What is it that you're looking for?

The obligatory question that everyone always asks! If you're looking for different things, it's not going to be a good match. Make it clear in your profile what it is you want to gain from the site. And don't be ashamed to be honest! Whether you want a relationship, casual dating or just a hook up, be clear! There are going to be millions of people who are looking for exactly the same as you! And if you just want a hook up, this will save you a lot of time!

Talk about yourself

Yes, most people hate it and find it extremely awkward! But you're looking to impress! Describe the kind of person you are, describe the kind of person you're looking for. Think about your best attributes, and those you hope to find in a potential partner. Use humour when you can. Be confident, but not arrogant. Think about what you'd like to read on someone else's profile, and go from there.

Interest and hobbies

This section will be especially relevant should you be looking for something more serious. People seek out similar interests. It suggests a potential connection, at least a very good start anyway! Whether it's travel, music, movies or reading, give some details! The more certain you are about the things you have in common, the more positive you feel about approaching a person to take things further.

Personality

Let yours shine! So many people overthink the blurb on their profile, take it too seriously. Try writing your introduction in the same way as you'd say it to someone. You'd be surprised how much more approachable you seem that way. When you read an introduction and get a real sense of the person you're reading about, you are much more likely to make the first move. Your confidence in them and yourself builds.

Remember, keep it simple. Don't overthink things. Just imagine what would make you reach out to someone, and apply that to your own profile! You'll be be fighting them off before you know it! So, off you go, and wait for those messages to roll in!

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